12 Step Luxury Rehabs; Save Your Money For Something Better!

After doing some research online, I have to wonder if 12 step luxury alcohol rehabs are worth the expense? After all they offer the same therapy model that has been ineffective for alcohol and drug users for decades. It saddens me to realize that people are spending money on a treatment program that will not only leave them broke, but also with a continuing drug and/or alcohol problem. One of the most important factors that contribute to the outcome of a substance user’s success is the philosophy behind the program they enroll into.

Although luxury rehabs are extravagant and outwardly beautiful, they teach the same drug and alcohol treatment model as AA, which has a self reported 5% success rate. The truth behind the matter is…luxury rehabs can offer all the amenities and luxuries an individual may want, but luxuries should not out-weigh the real reason why you are there and that is to make an effective choice to stop using.

Along with the outrageous expense, there have been numerous incidents where confidentiality was not top priority for guests of 12 step luxury rehab and their private admission papers and/or diagnosis were released to the media. If privacy and confidentiality mattered to these programs why would there always be something in OK magazine or the news about another celebrity rehab story?

Charlie Sheen’s ex-wife Brooke Mueller had her private admission papers released to the media from a luxury rehab in Malibu she attended back in 2010. The rehab admitted to the leak, but at that point the damage was done. Obviously someone is selling the news! Which breaks every rule in the book! Why would a treatment facility try to get good PR from someone being so “sick with addiction.” Obviously they are trying to make their facility the next celeb hot spot, which is so wrong. Maybe celebrities can deal with this negative publicity but highly influential people who’s reputations are on the line, deserve to have some say in the matter and deal with their issue in privacy.

Unlike ineffective 12 step programs that these rehabs model themselves after, Saint Jude Retreats offers an Executive Retreat which is truly private and confidential, and has a twenty year history of evidence based, independently verified results. Since St. Jude’s is not a treatment facility, but rather a choice-based, educational model, and there are no diagnosis nor any disease labels.

With Saint Jude’s non-disease bases program are no admission papers that can later be used to harm a guest’s reputation. St. Jude’s has no medical paperwork of guests due to the fact that the organization is based on education and does not provide any sort of treatment to their guests.

At Saint Jude’s guests receive the benefits of a luxury rehab without being labeled as an addict, nor will they ever be placed on lock down. Saint Jude Retreat guests are treated with the highest respect, hence the term guest and not patient or client.

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America: the land of the free–and the home of the brainwashed?

American culture has evolved over the past century in unmistakably positive and negative ways. American social habits have also greatly progressed, especially with regards to alcohol and drug use. America wasn’t always so accepting of substance use especially during the prohibition when alcohol was illegal–such as marijuana is today.  But at what point did drinking too much become a disease called addiction? There are two sides to the addiction story. One view is that addiction isn’t a disease, the other side is that addiction is a “disease” which you will have for the rest of your life. The industry leader in treatment is Alcohol Anonymous (AA). Although AA is the most commonly known treatment model, this does not make the program more effective, or effective at all. The first step of the 12 steps forces the members of AA to admit, after forming in a ritualistic group circle, that “We admitted we were powerless over alcohol—that our lives had become unmanageable.” However, the research from the leading addiction specialists around the globe demonstrate that all actions regarding substance use are voluntary, which of course, flaws the entire traditional 12 step program.

Since the early 1800′s alcoholism wasn’t the supposed “epidemic” it is deemed to be today and it certainly was never considered a disease. In fact—the vast majority of people drank alcohol daily in higher quantities than they do today, and at much younger ages. They did so as a means of avoiding water contamination which was rampant during the time period prior to modern plumbing and filtration.  It wasn’t until the early 1930′s that AA was truly established and became part of society. Read more about the timeline of alcohol from the 1920′s to modern day₁.

1920 The passage of the 18th Amendment (prohibition) and the Volstead Act effectively outlaw the production, sale, and transportation of alcoholic beverages in the United States. (Alcohol was also illegal in Finland from 1919 to 1932 and in various Canadian provinces at various times between 1900 and 1948.)

1920-1933 The illicit alcohol trade booms in the United States.

1933 Prohibition is repealed; most states restrict youth under 18 (the minimum voting age) from possessing or consuming alcoholic beverages.

1935 Alcoholics Anonymous is established; the American Medical Association passes a resolution declaring that alcoholics are valid patients.

1944 The U.S. Public Health Service labels alcoholism the fourth-largest health problem.

1964 The Grand Rapids study shows that the risk of an automobile crash increases as more alcohol is consumed.

1970-1975 The minimum drinking age is lowered in 29 states from 21 to 18, 19 or 20 following the enactment of the 26th Amendment to the U.S. Constitution, which lowers the legal voting age to 18.

1980 Mothers Against Drunk Driving is established with the goal of reducing alcohol-related highway fatalities.

In today’s modern day, not much has changed and the debate of whether alcohol is a disease or not is a controversial debate among leading non-12 step programs and traditional drug and alcohol rehabs such as AA. Yet, no studies can overcome the simple reality that the vast majority of “dependent” drinkers quit drinking on their own with no treatment or alcohol rehab to credit the change. By age 37, more than 80% of those drinkers deemed dependent overcome their drinking problem without alcohol treatment. This phenomenon is known to researchers as “maturing out” of the problem. To most in the credible research profession, this “phenomenon” is called common sense.

₁ “An Alcohol History Timeline.” – Alcohol-Facts.Net. Web. 23 Apr. 2012.
<http://www.alcoholfacts.net/Alcohol-Timeline.html>.

 

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The French Fry “Addiction”

TLC’s “Freaky Eaters” show has been on for quite some time now. Food AddictionThe show focuses on people with so called “food addictions” who base their entire diet on that one food. I happened to catch a repeat episode of “French fry girl” Amber Scott the other night. For over 25 years, Amber has consumed French fries for breakfast, lunch and dinner and was convinced she was sick, with addiction. Nutritionist JJ Virgin, who appears regularly on the show, kept repeating that Amber think it’s not her fault she consumes thousands of French fries and Amber also believes she has no choice in regards to her “addiction”–but she does.

After some coaching, exposing Amber to different foods, she began trying foods such as baked potatoes and cucumbers. After only a week, she could eat something different. Amber was convinced she was sick with addiction, turns out the only thing wrong with Amber was an extremely rare taste disorder, which caused her to experience an intolerance to textures and tastes, but even with this condition she was able to lessen her French fry habit. After the show ended, Amber managed to incorporate 15 foods into her diet other than French fries, and while she didn’t quit eating them altogether, she consumes them in healthy moderations.

With all this said, many people who are told they have a substance “addition” by alcohol and drug rehabs, can gain hope from this show. Usually within five days the participants are off of their “freaky eaters” habit by choice, and are living without that particular food. It also reminds me that many 12 step programs will tell members they are powerless, but Amber after 25 years of eating the same thing changed her diet in a month. If addiction was real, Amber wouldn’t have been able to stop eating French fries for every meal. After all, she psychologically believed her “addiction” was holding her back from eating other foods, even though she often thought of trying them.

The show also brought up another point that if addiction was incurable, why would they even bother to film the show? So everyone could fail? That would make no sense and certainly wouldn’t boost ratings. There was no mention of Amber surrendering to French fries, as in 12 step programs you surrender to a higher power. That sends a strong message that 12 step programs such as AA are not the answer and the theories these programs teach are almost comical. Amber made a choice to stop her French fry habit, mostly because she saw her daughter developing the same habit.

Another contributor to Amber’s success was the information she received during the show. Just like the help the Saint Jude’s program can offer, Amber was told she wouldn’t have to deal her condition forever. She was encouraged to take small steps that would lead to a great change. Amber was surrounded by people that cared and not people that told her she would never get over her “addiction.”  Whether it’s alcohol or French fries, ultimately with the right amount of help and motivation you can change your life, that’s why choosing the right substance use program is a vital part of your success.

 

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More Celebrity Rehab – ‘Successes’

Recently the Mike Sorrentino aka the “situation” was released from rehab after only a two-week stay for suspected drug treatment at the Cirque Lodge in Utah. The Situation’s rep claimed he attended the celebrity adored 12 step rehab simply to relax and rejuvenate himself. However, cast members reported they personally witnessed the Situation over using prescription drugs while at the shore house.

Certainly Mike’s partying lifestyle would lead many to believe he would eventually have problems with overusing both drugs and alcohol. The cast mates of the hit MTV series often end their nights at 5 am to 6 am in the morning and then get up the next day and continue to party all day into the early morning. Anyone would be exhausted, but the Situation is choosing to take pills to give him energy instead of slowing down his party lifestyle.   While the Jersey Shore star claims he is stronger and better than ever, Mike the Situation likely has a long journey in front of him especially with the choices he makes in the vital next few months with the taping of another season. The Saint Jude’s Program strongly recommends at least six weeks of classes to fully understand our program and the concept of how natural lifestyle evolve. St. Jude’s uses this time to educate the guests so they can become fully aware of the goals they want to obtain while participating in this alternative drug/alcohol treatment program. It’s hard to believe Sorrentino could come to terms with his drug use over a period of two weeks, especially when 12 step programs tell participants they are doomed with a disease and an addiction…Forever.

It will be interesting to see how this story pans out. If the “Situation” can make better choices while in the Jersey Shore atmosphere he most certainly can make it through anything. If he chooses to go back to his party-lifestyle it may lead him to make more bad decisions regarding prescription drug use. Ultimately his fate lies in his own hands.

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Looking for an Outpatient Methadone Rehab In New York City?

Outpatient methadone rehabs currently serve 254,000 clients throughout the US.  Approximately 12% of all outpatient methadone clients, or a total of 30,000 people, are in New York City.  Some new research reports shed light on their situation. 

Methadone is the most highly regulated outpatient treatment available, on both the state and federal level. It is mainly confined to clinics where clients must line up every morning to receive their daily dose. This brings with it some horrible unintended consequences. Most visibly, and this has been the reason why many communities have sought to keep outpatient methadone treatment centers from opening, this setup causes a daily convergence of substance users, all with differing levels of commitment to change, and many with no intention to change. The influence of the less committed on the more well intentioned or moderately intentioned clients can be devastating. When they should be moving on with their lives, instead, the active substance user subculture remains a part of their daily life.

While it was found that a shocking 1 out of 10 outpatient methadone clients in New York City had experienced an overdose within the last 2 years, it’s important to realize that their problems aren’t even contained to these troubled users, but rather touch many more outpatient methadone clients. More than 21% reported being with someone while they overdosed – for a total of one-third involved directly with overdose episodes.  What’s more, 73.5% said they know people who mix both licit and illicit substances with their methadone. What we have is a culture in which the vast majority of people attending outpatient methadone treatment programs in New York City are still heavily involved with active high risk substance users. The continuing substance use at outpatient methadone clinics in New York City is so bad that 73% of clients believe free needles should be provided at the clinics.

This report certainly paints a grim picture of the outpatient methadone treatment scene in New York City. Typically, the regulation of methadone clinics also requires that clients attend a number of individual and group counseling sessions, at least once a week – but many clients are required to attend even more often. This can only compound the problem, further drawing each client into the “recovery” subculture, which as we’ve seen, at least in New York City’s outpatient methadone treatment rehabs, includes a large proportion of active substance users. What’s more, another recent study found that these counseling sessions may be unnecessary, and may actually decrease retention rates.

Now, whether or not outpatient methadone drug treatment is actually an effective solution for opioid abuse is another question altogether, but as far as the comparison between counseled and non-counseled clients goes, this latter study doesn’t bode well for the counseling component of outpatient methadone treatment. The researchers focused on the first four months of outpatient methadone treatment (due to regulatory limitations), and found that 92% of clients who were allowed to take methadone without attending the typically required outpatient counseling sessions, stayed in treatment for at least 4 months – while only 81% of those who attended counseling actually stayed in treatment!  Both groups equally reduced drug intake, but the non-counseling group was actually involved in less criminal activity than the group who received outpatient counseling!  This may be one more important piece of evidence which points to the counterproductive nature of most substance abuse counseling methods.

Beyond these problems, the former study also cites many complaints of outpatient methadone clients that the staff are hard to get along with, that police regularly stake out the clinics looking to entrap people, and that many of them miss doses due to difficulty complying with the many bureaucratic traps involved in New York City’s outpatient methadone programs.

When looking for an effective long-term solution to a substance use problem, you should consider carefully whether you want to become a part of the rollercoaster ride of New York City’s outpatient treatment rehabs. There are more effective programs that do not include the ingestion of drugs as a solution! Call 1-800-497-3086 for more information on other options available to you.

 

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How Long Do Saint Jude Retreats Programs Last?

Many people assume that because drug and alcohol rehab centers typically enroll their patients in a 28-day program, that that is exactly how long it takes for someone to overcome their problems with drugs and alcohol. It doesn't. This time spent in a drug and alcohol rehab center is the beginning of a process where the person admits they have a disease they are powerless to overcome, followed by life-long 12-step meetings.

Unlike alcohol and drug treatment centers, Saint Jude Retreats offers a six-week program for people who want to make a permanent change in their lifestyle regarding drugs and alcohol. Our social education program is not a treatment plan. It is the foundation for a healthier, happier life-style. During the six-week period, program participants will learn about how they can gain control over their lives and that they don't have a disease called addiction. It includes time for people to take classes and learn more about themselves and their habits as an individual. In the closing weeks of the retreat program, participants will set future goals for themselves so that they can live successfully without drugs and alcohol.

If, at the end of the six-week period, participants want to spend additional time in preparation for the future, we have extended customized programs geared toward young adults, adults and seniors. A one-week personalized program, for example, might focus on plans for college education or resume building and job searches. Other options focus more on emotional needs and self-confidence involved in returning home. For seniors, there is a continuing education option to discover how to better deal with health issues or finding new interests and hobbies to fit their new life-style.

For more information about the programs at Saint Jude Retreats, contact our office at 1-888-424-2626.

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Why Celebrities Struggle With Drug and Alcohol Treatment Centers

With the recent news of drug and alcohol problems among several celebrities, including Whitney Houston and Lindsay Lohan, it  brings to mind the concern over the effectiveness of drug and alcohol treatment centers. We often hear in the news of the frequent check-ins to these places, which cost hundreds of thousands of dollars. You may wonder why these celebrities are in the revolving door and why they pay large sums of money for swank accommodations, but they never seem to get better. Here's why.

First, and most importantly, they are often involved in an affluent lifestyle where drug and alcohol use is prominent. When someone around them decides that they have a problem, they are told to check themselves into drug or alcohol rehab. This is not their choice, but the act of taking advice from someone else. If they don't want to fix the problem – or even admit that they have one – the chances of them succeeding are slim to none.

The next step in drug and alcohol treatment centers is admitting that you are powerless over drugs and alcohol; that it is a disease you cannot change, but must learn how to cope with every day for the rest of your life. This is not a hopeful outcome. In fact, many drug and alcohol addiction treatment facilities will tell their "patients" that only 1 in 10 will successfully maintain sobriety for quite some time. This is discouraging news. Rather than giving them the tools of social education that they need to overcome their problems that are wrapped up in drugs or alcohol, they are told that they are likely doomed to failure. As a result, they seldom succeed.

At Saint Jude Retreats, we have a completely different philosophy – one that works, whether you are a celebrity or not. When someone is ready to admit that they have a problem with drugs or alcohol and they want to make a change, we can help. However, it must be the individual's decision, not someone else's. We do not pin the idea of powerlessness and hopelessness to their success. When people are given the information, education and tools to change, they can – and do — live a life free of substance use by taking charge and making wise choices. This applies to the everyone, including celebrities.

This brings us to the third issue of typical celebrity drug and alcohol rehab. The accommodations are swank. They are expensive. In truth, the facilities are no different than the local hospital or drug rehab center where many people without fame and fortune turn for help. The message of powerlessness, disease and probable failure is the same. The main difference is that the local hospitals and drug rehab centers do not have swank accommodations with high thread count sheets and high-dollar meals. At Saint Jude Retreats, we offer comfortable surroundings, confidentiality and nutritious food that tastes good. We provide a program that works for people who are willing to exercise their power of choice to create a change that results in life-long sobriety.

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Whitney Houston: A Drug Treatment Success Story

Most everyone will read this title and be instantly horrified or angry. You may be wondering how I can say that a tragic death like that of Whitney Houston is considered a “successful” outcome for drug treatment. But what is truly horrifying is Ms. Houston’s life post treatment, and her subsequent death, fit exactly into an expected and acceptable treatment outcome.

Whether you look into the most common 12-step treatment programs, non-12-step and holistic treatment programs, religiously based drug treatment or any form of addiction counseling, all require the substance user to accept that they have lost control over their thoughts and behaviors; i.e. they are powerless. In fact most drug treatment programs will not allow patients to graduate from programs without admitting and accepting they have a lifelong disease that renders them powerless over substances.

In many treatment settings patients are asked to look around the room and are told that only 1 in 10 of them will maintain sobriety for any length of time. And worse yet, all are told that they can never recover fully, but instead will remain in a state of perpetual recovery where relapse is common and expected. Not only is this erroneous information stressful for the substance user, but it is also provides a ready-made excuse for continued drug and alcohol use problems.

According to multiple sources Whitney Houston attended her first out-patient rehab in 2004, and thus began her descent into typical and accepted treatment success: the revolving door. Houston, like the millions of substance users much less notable than she, absolutely accepted her powerlessness and embraced it. She became a living example of the self-fulfilling prophecy created by drug treatment; ‘I must accept that I am powerless; I am powerless over drugs; I have cravings; it’s part of my disease; I can never recover; I must use drugs; I have no power; I want to use drugs; drugs will kill me; I am powerless…’ These ideas are indoctrinated in the drug treatment patient, and ruminate around their minds continuously. Treatment providers espouse that if people understand and accept their “disease” that is marked by “powerlessness” that they will then be able to “control” it. What?!? Even the idea itself is convoluted and has now created a culture of ‘Whitney Houstons’ who truly believe they are powerless and can never overcome their problems.

As people who have been labeled addicts continue to use drugs post treatment, (i.e. relapse as referred to by the treatment community), this reinforces the idea in their own minds that they are powerless. While the vast majority of people know they are not “powerless” when they enter their first treatment program, most believe they are when they leave. No one ever stops to ask the question, if addiction is a disease and people really are powerless then how do millions of heavy, problem substance users stop using alcohol and drugs or moderate their usage each and every day, and most without any treatment whatsoever? The answer is, they couldn’t possibly, but they do. Teaching Whitney Houston and millions of others like her that they are powerless is a death sentence. Ms. Houston is just one more in a long line of tragic outcomes that drug treatment and the prevailing addiction disease fallacy creates.

As we mourn the passing of a truly talented artist, it is most important to understand the real tragedy; that is Ms. Houston was given the wrong information and as a result did exactly as the treatment providers said she would; she kept using drugs. She kept struggling needlessly, when in reality she had the power to change herself all along, and in fact, she was the only one with such power. What is even more tragic and despicable is this same treatment community that gave her the noose that killed her now holds her up as a poster child for the awful ‘disease of addiction’. For them her death is a success on multiple levels as it allows them to continue to disseminate their misinformation that ultimately lines their pockets and keeps substance users dependent forever. What a convenient dichotomy. 

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Saint Jude Retreats Helps People With Substance Use Problems

Oftentimes, people think of drug problems as use of illegal substances, such as marijuana, cocaine and methamphetamines. They do not think about prescription drugs. Problems with drugs and alcohol can take on many different forms. They may be a mix of drugs, such as crystal meth and Xanax, or overuse of alcohol. At Saint Jude Retreats, we can help people experiencing problems with drug or alcohol use if they want to change and want help. We have a number of different programs now available, including residential retreats, at-home classes and a pilot program for day classes in New York City.

When people use drugs and alcohol beyond moderation, they may develop health problems. As a result, if they choose to stop drinking or using certain substances, they may have physical withdrawal issues. In some cases, estimated at less than 3 percent of the population, the body's physical reaction to withdrawal may be so severe that the person needs medical attention to perform a detoxification process. At Saint Jude Retreats, we are a non-medical substance use education facility, so we do not offer any detox services. There are some places throughout the country that we refer to should someone need the medical attention required.

Something else we do not do at Saint Jude Retreats is force people to enter our program. While this is a common practice at some drug or alcohol addiction treatment facilities, we wait until the person experiencing problems with drugs, alcohol or both is ready to make a lifestyle change. Whether the person has problematic use of alcohol, illegal or prescription drugs, contact Saint Jude Retreats today. We can help.

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How Saint Jude Retreats Differs From a 12-Step Program

For more than 20 years, Saint Jude Retreats has been helping people who have problems with drugs and alcohol to make lifestyle changes. Part of what makes our program successful is our environment, paired with our philosophy. We are unlike other programs. Many people who have come to Saint Jude Retreats have found that alcohol rehab and drug treatment programs do not work. Some people have tried and left 12-step programs and methods when seeking help. There are many differences between Saint Jude Retreats and 12-step programs.  These are just a few of them.

Philosophy
We do not offer a 12-step program, nor do we tell people they have a disease or send them to daily meetings for the rest of their lives. Saint Jude Retreats was the first non-12-step model for those who struggle with the use of drugs and alcohol. Our program participants do not work through a set of steps etched in stone that everyone must follow. Because each person's issues are different, we teach program participants to resolve their individual problematic lifestyle with the tools we give them.

Saint Jude Retreats does not tell people that they are powerless over drugs and alcohol, but that they have the power to choose not to use them. Since there is no disease to treat and no illness to overcome, participants in our social education program are free of working 12 steps and from attending a lifetime of meetings.

Participation
Something else they are free of is the ambush of an intervention. This method of attacking those with substance use problems to force them to enroll in drug and alcohol treatment centers or enter 12-step programs is ineffective and can be counter-productive. While the individual's family may simply want to be involved in helping their loved one stop drinking or using drugs, we have found other ways for friends and family to show their support — without trickery. Our family consultants work with the family members of those enrolled in our program. We give them plenty of information to learn about Saint Jude Retreats so that they can better understand what to expect and what not to expect when their loved one leaves the program and comes home.

For more information about the services offered through Saint Jude Retreats, contact our office today.
 

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